It's about time we started organizing ourselves and demanding accomodation from our communities, too.
Going to a gathering or conference? Where's the childcare, damn it?
We need to start building infrastructure that supports us- co-op childcare, group homeschooling communities, spiral scouts groups, playdates, and so much more. A place to start are the new Witch Mom forums. Join, introduce yourself, and start the discussion about parent inclusion in the pagan community!